My favourite highly suggestive and very intimate song by a New Zealand artist is When You Come written by Neil Finn. I'm sorry, call me dirty-minded (as if I'd care) but I get nothing out of this song other than an intensely hot, loving relationship and a man worshipping with wonder and revelling in his part in the partnership of his partner's orgasm. Gets me excited every time but also a little embarrassed because it's so personal. It's like you're in the room perving.
My favourite opera is Puccini's Madame Butterfly about a Japanese geisha who falls in love with and still hankers after an American sailor who has gone home and married an American girl. A cautionary tale. New Zealand Ballet did a beautiful production of this story a few years ago. (I also saw a brilliant dance performance of Bizet's Carmen, another great female character - she has an attitude: I want to be free to love who I want! also with disastrous results sadly.)
My favourite Tarantino movie is True Romance featuring a tough yet sweet former sex worker who embarks on a crazy Bonnie and Clyde type of adventure with her last client. Being a true romantic I loved the happy ending. Close behind on the list of my favourite Tarantino movies is Jackie Brown, not a sex worker but a strong, fearless woman who happens to be hot in a sexy, curvaceous, womanly way. (She probably wouldn't baulk at sex work either.) NB These movies contain violence, drugs and sex scenes.
My favourite erotic song of all time has to be Everybody Here Wants You from Jeff Buckley's posthumous album 'Sketches for My Sweetheart the Drunk'. Who could possibly resist being aroused by the sensuous timbre in the dreamy opening and lyrics such as "coffee smell and lilac skin, your flame in me, I'm only here for this moment". A close third on the list after the Crowded House song I mentioned before would probably be Marvin Gaye's Let's Get It On, a perennial motivator to listen to during those awkward who-likes-who-the-most situations before a new relationship is acknowledged to exist.
And last but not least, my favourite pornstar is Manuel Ferrara. With a face like the aforementioned Jeff Buckley's if he'd lived long enough to age, the body of a hunky mature dude and a cock like, well, Manuel Ferrara, how could he go wrong? He's an award-winning porn actor, yes they have awards, and my fondest dream is to possess for my private pleasure a Manuel Ferrara Realistic Dong. I'm taking this opportunity to hint that I am hoping for a generous friend to one day send me one as a gift. I will then be able to breathlessly whisper very naughty things about how I am playing with it.